Who has an opposite viewpoint as yours?
How willing are you to see his or her view?
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Seeking an opposing viewpoint is a great way to expand your perspective, knowledge, and connections for the best innovations.
It can be difficult though. Spiral Impact tips for success:
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- Be clear about your intention – is it for learning, seeking the best solutions, collaborating,
or changing his viewpoint? - If your intent is to change his viewpoint – STOP! He will feel your intent and resist.
- Being Centered is crucial to avoid getting hooked in.
- Stick to asking open-ended questions, avoiding asking “why?” questions.
- Be clear about your intention – is it for learning, seeking the best solutions, collaborating,
For extra credit just listen and forget about sharing your point of view – let me know how it goes!
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