Is Listening Enough?

Just because you listen, do you really understand? I listened and heard clearly: “She is a bully.”  I thought she must intentionally hurt people. I was wrong. When I spiraled and asked, “What is she doing to earn that reputation?” I learned, she is asking people to...

Does stuff equal conflict?

Does ‘stuff’ cause you conflict? It does me.  As I begin the week, having a clear workspace allows me to focus on what is important.   Are the important things assessable?   Is your planner or ‘to do’ list handy and clear? What is worthy of your attention?  Anything...

Just one more question

Just one more question would have saved me an hour. Those of you who know me well, know I am very committed to working out.  I schedule a work out almost everyday.   I find it invaluable in numerous ways:  thinking time, refreshed energy, and physical wellness. Today...