Good bye dear cup!

Good bye dear cup!

It happened so fast; it slipped my grasp, and bam, my favorite coffee cup was on the floor in pieces. While it may seem trivial, it is an apt metaphor for this transitional time of year. It was my cup for twenty years—the perfect weight and shape were part of my...
Conflict Confidence: From Fear to Freedom

Conflict Confidence: From Fear to Freedom

Picture this – You are an intense journey that demands everyone brings their best forward but half the leaders are unequipped to deal with conflict. Where does that leave you? It leaves a lot o confusion and mistrust on the team. A recent DDI study revealed that...
Ahhh…Yes!  Still Pushing?

Ahhh…Yes! Still Pushing?

Daily, I am keenly reminded… When we push another person, they almost always push back initially.  This is a universal principle I’ve studied for over three decades. We label it resistance or conflict.  That push can be through direct verbal opposition or...
Bulldozers and Blinks – Navigating Change

Bulldozers and Blinks – Navigating Change

It’s lovely now. Though, for weeks, I navigated a gauntlet of large machinery every time I left my home – enduring clamorous noise at times necessitating zooming from a tiny remote closet, all while feeling more sensitive than usual due to my mother’s passing. I...
No Phone – Brought Me Home!

No Phone – Brought Me Home!

Fifteen days without my phone, most of it in foreign countries, was eye-opening. Literally. Conflict doesn’t always happen with another person; it often happens with events or things. Realizing my phone was gone, and after I secured and shut it down, I admit I cried a...