Does stuff equal conflict?
Does ‘stuff’ cause you conflict? It does me. As I begin the week, having a clear workspace allows me to focus on what is important. Are the important things assessable? Is your planner or ‘to do’ list handy and clear? What is worthy of your attention? Anything...
Just one more question
Just one more question would have saved me an hour. Those of you who know me well, know I am very committed to working out. I schedule a work out almost everyday. I find it invaluable in numerous ways: thinking time, refreshed energy, and physical wellness. Today...
Got Space?
How is space power? For me, it is a combination of deepening my center practice, claifying my intent and giving myself some grace because transitions take time. What tips will you share? If you'd like the download of my 15 minute quiet centering practice, drop me your...
Red Parrot Phenomenon
How does your ‘past self' follow you around? You believe you've made major improvements in your performance, but people close to you see only the past you. I call this the Red Parrot Phenomenon. The Exploratorium in San Francisco has a science experiment demonstrating...
What is your ‘grasshopper?’
What does a grasshopper have to do with conflict resolution or performance improvement? My indoor winter garden is filled with fresh young green plants, a delightful contrast as everything else is going dormant with the onset of fall. This morning I was surprised to...
Reminder, Reflection, Commitment
Whoops! It’s been busy with Labor Day, school, football and 911 memories. So, I’ve extended the early registration discount for this coming Open program, until the 16th, in case you’ve been distracted. Thursdays, September 22 & 29 Spiral Impact and Use Conflict...
Name this photo contest
Fire hydrant meets frustrated computer user. Is this appropriate conflict resolution? I took this in Boston recently. Come up with the winning caption and you win a $20 Starbucks card. All entrees must be posted on the blog!
What can we learn from Irene?
Irene lost her center = Irene lost much of her power. Good for the east coast and important for us to take notice. When I work with people, their performance and how to use conflict creatively the framework I use is a Spiral. Why? Spirals pack a lot of power. What...
Are you a GPS Leader?
Maybe I am old fashioned I like a plain map; even though GPS* is the current rage in travel guidance. My daughter has a GPS she refers to as ‘Hugh.' 'Hugh' has a very sexy English accent...my trust in ‘Hugh’ is low. We get where we want to go but often it is the...
How do you dream?
How do you dream? Most likely it is when you are taking a rest or break, whether asleep or awake. I've been dreaming and planning. More to come soon.
My Words to Congress
It’s the process! Not the end deal. Destructive conflict, childish behavior – our Congress modeled nothing I admire. The end deal is yet to be seen. Yet, the world lost trust in the United States because of behavior. Who is teaching them conflict resolution? There...
Contrast to Appreciate
These dog days of summer provide contrast to the February cold. Contrast creates appreciation. The tension from conflict provides ripe ground for the relief of resolution. Contrast creates appreciation. An overly full calendar provides the longing for a holiday....
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Karen Valencic
Martial artist. Engineer. Best-selling author. Sought-after consultant.